Ryan Porche

Sabbath

2009-05-31T12:10:00.002-05:00

I'm terrible at taking time off. Absolutely terrible. Having been employed as a "full-time minister" for almost five years now, I still can't find a good balance. Ministry is not a job, it's a lifestyle. So, on one hand, you're never "off." But on the other hand, I'm no good to anyone as a minister unless I take time for myself and for my own relationship with God (not to mention my family, which I should probably mention).

Claudia and I were able to take Friday off together. We had a blast, and it was very refreshing. Storyline's equipping staff is looking to take a new weekly rhythm this summer--taking Mondays off. This is a dream come true for me, as I have wanted to take Mondays off for years! Here's hoping that this new rhythm can make this balance a little easier.

I'll keep you posted.

Website Finished!

2008-08-14T16:07:00.000-05:00

We finally finished our new website for Storyline. I'd love for you to go check it out. www.storylinecommunity.com

Centerpieces

2008-07-07T16:10:00.003-05:00

I would like to share one of my most favorite practices of our young community of faith: communion. Each week, we share communion together as a part of our house church gathering. Here’s how it unfolds: our time together begins by sharing a meal. At some point during the meal, someone will interrupt the conversations and offer a more formal welcome to our home. One part of this welcome is an explanation of the communion meal and an invitation to participate. Our attention is drawn to the centerpieces on all the tables in the room--beautiful displays with bread and wine. The welcomer will pray for the food we’re sharing--particularly giving thanks for the death and resurrection of Jesus. As the prayer is concluded, our conversations continue, and someone near each centerpiece will distribute the contents to those around them.

Allow me to point out some observations I’ve made having experienced this for about two months now. First, I’ve been struck by the hands that have served. I have seen first-time guests distribute the items without hesitation. Individuals who haven’t been to church in a long time have helped as well. We’ve even had a two-year-old carry around the loaf of bread as people tear off their portion. These happenings paint a beautiful picture of an open table--where all are welcome, all are served, and all are equal.

In addition, I’ve noticed a change in our conversation tone once we have shared. As in any dinner gathering, our opening conversations inform each other about the activities keeping us all busy. But after communion, our questions of each other are deeper. Our topics are more significant. Our concern for each other is more evident.

The centerpiece of our gathering is the Lord’s Supper. Even after the meal is complete and we enter our time of worship, the communion display remains in the center of our circle. And this is powerful. After all, the death and resurrection of Jesus are of first importance in our faith. While we may disagree on other matters of spirituality, the centrality of His death and resurrection is strong enough to keep us together. The power of these events is why we gather in the first place.

Reflections From Our First Justice Project

2008-07-02T11:16:00.005-05:00

Please read Charles' post from July 2. inthestoryline

A New "Porche"

2008-06-26T10:50:00.004-05:00

My wife and I have had a new addition to our household recently. We are dog-sitting for her parents until we get to see them again in July. Growing up, my family only had "outside" dogs. So, with the exception of my summer in San Antonio, this is the first time I have lived for an extended time with a dog in the house. Her name is Tori, and she is hilarious! It's been fun to have a new friend who likes us so much. :o) Here are a couple pictures. What about your family? Are you an "inside" dog family, or an "outside" dog family? (Notice "cat" family isn't even an option.)

Celebrating Another Milestone

2008-05-20T08:44:00.006-05:00

It's official, we have chosen a name for this new church: Storyline Christian Community.

Storyline is a way of referring to the plot of a story. An editor might ask how a detail in a story fits into the larger storyline--the greater plot. We believe this idea describes something profound about life: we each have our own stories, but is there a way they all contribute to something larger? Or to ask the same question differently, does life have a larger storyline appealing for our contribution?

We believe there is such a story. And we want our lives to count. We want our contributions to matter. So we begin to investigate what this greater story is all about, and how our lives might have a role in this storyline.

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Why Christian Community instead of church? We have several reasons. But first, please do not misunderstand: we are starting a new church. We love and admire other churches, and we consider ourselves a part of the universal Church (stretching across time and around the globe). We are not ashamed of being a church.

Today, however, the idea of a church has come to carry some meanings we do not desire. For instance, when we use the word church, we repeatedly use it to refer to a place, not a people. The most frequent question people ask me after I tell them we're starting a new church is not "what will you be about," but they ask "where will it be?" We sense Christian Community will communicate better: we are a people seeking Jesus.

Our decision also has to do with our mission context: central Dallas. There are tons of people here who grew up in church, but they no longer participate. Many of them have had bad experiences. And unfortunately, these poor experiences and perceptions get projected on to all churches. Now, I'm not silly enough to assume no one will ever have a poor experience as a part of this new church, but we do hope the striking absence of the word church from our name might serve to communicate that our community is unique from what others may have experienced previously.

And finally, this language is more true to our values. I believe the point of church is living in relationships with others--sharing life together. Our methodologies are built around this conviction, and we're designing our ministry structures to facilitate a culture of genuine relationships. We are about creating community.

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And we're so fired up! Our families celebrated yesterday with not one, but TWO dessert samplers at a great Uptown restaurant. I suppose next to this whole church planting idea, dessert might be our greatest passion. :o)

Bed & Breakfast...and Airport Shuttle

2008-05-13T15:29:00.001-05:00

Claudia and I have joked recently that we're going to open our own Bed & Breakfast. Uptown, Dallas (where we live) is literally down the street from Dallas Love Field. Lately, we have had some family and friends come and stay, leave their cars, and we take them to the airport. We have really enjoyed it, because it's a great excuse to see people we don't usually get to see. And we enjoy having people in our home.

Be sure to read Charles' blog this week on justice (link at right). It will get you fired up!

This weekend, we're having our second big "connection event." We began inviting some of our neighbors last night. We'll be playing ultimate frisbee at the same park where we had the kickball game three weeks ago. The invitation is below.

Please pray this week that we would have the courage to stretch beyond our comfort zones to meet new people and speak boldly with regard to what we're about.

Connection Event Invitation

2008-05-13T15:22:00.001-05:00

House Church has Launched!

2008-05-05T15:14:00.000-05:00

I apologize for not posting for so long--the last couple weeks have been quite full. Two weeks ago, Charles and I attended the National New Church Conference in Orlando. It was super encouraging to spend time with almost 3,000 other church planters from all over America! While there were some typical reactions of attending any conference (feeling overwhelmed), Charles and I also experienced a great deal of affirmation and encouragement. We also stumbled upon some very intriguing ideas regarding community needs assessments.

Immediately upon our return, we had our first Hospitality Event (or “party,” for those who prefer the less technical language). We hosted lunch and kickball at a local park. It was an absolute blast! We had a great group of people show up, and everyone seemed to connect well. We invited everyone at the Kickball game to join us for the launching of our first house church, which was last night.

So, last week we were scurrying about in preparation for our first house church. We had a good number of people show up, and we had a great evening of fellowship and worship. We are so grateful to God for answering our prayers. We all feel the events of the last couple weeks have gone very well.

If you know of someone living in the Central Dallas area who you think might be a good fit for what we are about, feel free to give me a way to connect with them.

The More We Learn, the More There is to Learn

2008-04-11T10:25:00.002-05:00

Our learning this week has been intense. We’ve had numerous interviews with locals, church planters, and consultants. We spent the morning Wednesday with Central Dallas Ministries, and the afternoon in the office of a local high school counselor. Needless to say, after our time with these two entities, we had discovered no shortage of needs in the area.

We’re also still working to choose a name for this new community of faith. Fortunately, it looks like God is sending us some help on this one. None of us are the *gifted creative* type.

There has also been some spiritual attack this week--at least through some major distractions and sleepless nights. While I claim no knowledge of what truly happens in the spiritual realms, I do believe the powers of darkness are at work. It’s an extra critical time right now in this adventure, so I suppose it’s not surprising to encounter these things. Thanks for praying for us.

We’re learning important insights which I believe will assist us in leadership both now and in the future, and we hope to have some exciting announcements for you soon.

Acceptance and Transformation

2008-03-31T13:34:00.003-05:00

This week, I'm posting what my co-worker, Charles Kiser, had to say following our experiences last Sunday morning. You can read more from Charles about our church planting experiences at charleskiser.wordpress.com.

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Yesterday we visited an American Baptist/United Church of Christ/Alliance of Baptists/Emergent church that’s meeting in a Presbyterian church building in North Oak Cliff. It’s obviously quite a diverse community of faith.

I really enjoyed the service. It’s hard to describe it—kind of a contemporary-high church hybrid. In the pastor’s words, the church has one foot in Mainline Protestant churches (high church) and one foot in Emergent churches (contemporary). We listened to a jazz solo, sang an a cappella African song and followed a liturgy. The sermon was an actual conversation between the pastor and church members. Claudia Porche guessed that it might have been the most significant church experience we’ve had yet in our eight weeks of participant-observation.

At the heart of this experience’s significance for me was dealing with the tension of acceptance and transformation. This little eclectic church majored in the gospel value of acceptance. Everyone is welcomed and embraced, regardless of background, race, or even sexual orientation. We experienced this welcome and acceptance ourselves from church members after the service.

The church’s stance on sexual orientation got us talking at brunch afterwards. Though we hold different theological convictions on the subject of sexual orientation, we found ourselves drawn to the culture of acceptance there. We found ourselves asking: How do foster a culture of acceptance and at the same time value life transformation that results when the gospel is appropriated? How can we avoid judging people without loosening our grip on our theological convictions?

It’s a delicate balance. I recently read a book by John Burke addressing these questions called No Perfect People Allowed: Creating a Come as You Are Culture in the Church. Burke said a couple things that stuck out to me. First, unbelievers can’t be expected to fall in line with the transformative values of the gospel until they make a commitment to Jesus. Second, unbelievers don’t make a commitment to Jesus and experience life change without the power of the Holy Spirit at work in their lives. Ministers can’t engineer conviction and transformation.

On a practical level I think Burke’s observations mean that we love people unconditionally and leave conversion and life change to the work of the Holy Spirit. He is the only one, after all, who can convict the human heart and bring about transformation. Unbelievers see the values of the gospel as they are lived out in the Christian community and the Holy Spirit uses that modeling as fodder for change.

That’s about as far as I’ve gotten. I’m curious for your feedback on this matter.

How do you / your church community live in the tension between acceptance and transformation?

--Charles Kiser

1st Anniversary

2008-03-25T17:54:00.004-05:00

(picture by Jessica Risinger: www.jessicarisingerphotography.com)

Have you ever gone on a trip and asked several people to take pictures for you, only to get home and discover that they all took poor pictures? Us too.

A couple weeks ago, Claudia and I celebrated our 1st anniversary with a trip to San Antonio. We had a delightful time. The Riverwalk is one of my most favorite places on earth, but it was even better with my favorite person. We ate lunch in the rotating restaurant of the Tower of the Americas, and also took a Riverboat ride. The other picture above is from the Mirror Maze, which was much harder than we were expecting! We had to wear food-preparation gloves so we wouldn’t smudge the mirrors and ruin the experience for others. They also encouraged us to wear 3D glasses--as if the maze wasn’t challenging enough already. I stumbled around the whole time with my arms out in front of me as though it were pitch dark. Claudia and I found our way back to the starting point three times before we ever made any real progress. It was fun.

Other trip highlights include descending ten flights of stairs at 7:30 a.m. when our hotel fire alarm went off, and missing daylight savings time! We also went to a small Presbyterian Church’s production of “Meet Me in St. Louis.” Other than the fact that they couldn’t sing, the performance was okay. Obviously, we made some memories!

Looking back over our first year, there’s a lot to be thankful for. Best of all--we still enjoy being together.

A Time to Invite, and a Time to Be Invited

2008-03-18T11:33:00.001-05:00

Lately, my paradigms for outreach have been attacked (and this is a good thing). I used to see outreach as sending people out to invite more people back in. Granted, even in college, I began to see how the invitation “back in” was much better received when it occurred in the context of genuine relationship. But I was still approaching these relationships with the idea that I had everything to give. I know, I know…such humility! Actually, it’s embarrassing.

You see, as Claudia and I have begun making invitations to our Uptown neighbors, we’ve been surprised at how many—in the same instant of introducing themselves—have invited us into their homes for drinks and conversation. But I’m even more surprised at my own resistance to these invitations! After all, this is not what I had in mind! You’re supposed to come to our apartment so we can get to know you. And the words of a friend begin to echo in my head: what if we need to belong to them before we ever ask them to belong to us?

Ah. Now that’s a question. A one-sided relationship is not much of a relationship. I have realized how important it is for me to see the new people I meet as those who have something to offer me, rather than the other way around. So I embark with a new perspective this week: I’m looking for opportunities to learn and to belong. Rather than starting a new group of guys to play hoops at the park, I will join those already gathered. Rather than schedule as many people over for dinner as possible, we will leave margin to accept the invitations from others.

And as I write, my mind floods with stories of Jesus accepting the hospitality of others. May those who show hospitality to the Kisers and the Porches encounter Christ in us.

Happy Pi Day!

2008-03-14T14:07:00.002-05:00

Good news, everyone! It's Pi Day. March 14...3.14. And how, you might ask, does one celebrate Pi Day? By eating pie of course!

This is one of my most favorite traditions. This evening, we will eat pie and celebrate all that is good. And you should do the same.

I want to hear your Pi Day stories.

De-programming

2008-03-05T17:46:00.001-06:00

(By the way, we’ve had over forty people commit to being prayer partners with us—we are grateful for all of you!)

Over the last few weeks, my deep roots in church culture have become more and more apparent. We are really trying to see ourselves as domestic missionaries—immersing ourselves into the culture of Uptown and seeking to truly incarnate Christ in this environment. So while the attitude and behavior of Christ remains constant, the methodologies of being and doing church will look different than what I'm used to.

Now, I just used the word “methodologies,” so let me come back to earth before I hurt myself. In other words, I keep getting reminded that this new ministry I have embarked upon will never “settle back” into something I’m familiar with. Rather, we want the people of Uptown to have some say in what church “looks like.” We want this church to emerge from authentic relationships that develop over time. We want our justice projects and future worship gatherings to be informed by local colors and flavors.

What if our church never initiates a justice project from within, but instead we simply supply lots of volunteers for community projects that have already been established? Or what if our future worship gatherings take place only during the evening on Sundays, because that time works better for most young professionals? What if spiritual growth doesn’t begin with teaching, but begins with “Hey, we’re going to hand out socks to the homeless, want to come?”

Calling All Prayer Partners!

2008-02-25T11:54:00.001-06:00

Friends,

Of all of our partners in church planting, no partner is more important than a prayer partner. Planting a church is a big deal. Satan does not want us to succeed. Surrounding ourselves and our team with prayer partners is the single best thing we can do to ensure fruitfulness and faithfulness.

As a result of this value for prayer and the spiritual realities we are facing, we’re recruiting prayer partners who will cover us and the Uptown Church Plant in their prayers on a consistent basis.

Would you consider joining us as a prayer partner?

Here are some expectations:
• Pray for us at least three times a week, hopefully daily
• Receive and pray through weekly prayer request emails we will send out (separate from regular update emails)
• Join us for regular days of prayer and fasting
• Join us for special prayer walk events in Uptown as available (once or twice a year)
• Join us for prayer marathon events as available (once or twice a year)

On a general level, you can always be praying for the following on our behalf—whether or not you decide to commit to us as a prayer team member:
• Us - We need God's wisdom, patience and strength
• Our families (Kisers and Porches) - specifically balance and health in our marriages and families
• Protection - Satan will attack us, our families, and anyone who wants to join us
• Vision - that God would guide our planning and give us a clear vision for the new church
• Launch Team - that God would provide the right people to form the heart of the new church
• Lost People – that God would be working in the hearts of the lost in Uptown
• Finances - only God can provide; we lack about $55,000 for the working fund

If you discern God’s calling to join our prayer team, please email one of us to accept. We’ll put you on a distribution list and begin sending you weekly prayer request emails.

We love you all very much,

Charles Kiser, on behalf of Julie and Ryan Kiser, and Ryan and Claudia Porche

We Have New Niece!

2008-02-04T16:26:00.000-06:00

On Saturday evening, we welcomed our new niece, Naomi Elizabeth Sheets to the family! We're a very proud uncle and aunt! Now we need to figure out how we can travel to Tallahassee so we can meet her. Here are some pictures of Naomi, her big brother Gideon, Daisha (Claudia's sister) and JR.

The Day Has Come!

2008-01-30T15:59:00.001-06:00

It's an exciting week! Both we and the Kisers have completed our Apprenticeships, and we are beginning our full-time efforts toward partnering with God to create a new community of faith here in Uptown.

Two weeks ago, I had my final opportunity to lead worship with my keyboard at The Branch. It went well, and I believe I have grown a great deal in both my abilities and my confidence. This last Sunday, I led worship and Charles Kiser preached at our primary sponsoring church, South MacArthur (southmac.org). This assembly included a special moment of blessing and sending for both of our families. And it was meaningful to have members of our other sponsoring congregation, Richland Hills (rhchurch.org), along with the founders of Mission Alive (missionalive.org), Gailyn and Becky Van Rheenen, present for this special occasion.

Also over the weekend, I served as a mentor at The Branch's "Preparing for Battle" retreat, which is an important spiritual formation event that Charles and I plan to incorporate into our new church.

Charles and I were also privileged to spend some time with Lynn Anderson as a part of Grady King's mentoring group over the last two days. It was a rich time of encouragement and wisdom.

Claudia has been an absolute champion as she learns the ropes of her two new Speech Therapy positions. She has inspired all of us with her patience and perseverance as she has endured dueling orientations and the typical intense learning of new systems.

We have been mindful this week of individuals and families who have played key roles in the evolution of this church planting dream. We are very grateful for you. The day has come!

And so we pray: may the people in our community encounter Christ in us. May the Lord grant us a healthy community of people to share this journey of life: ever seeking to know more of His nature, to rest and relate in His character, to be transformed to new levels of glory, and to join His mission, ushering His dream for this world into reality.

January Week 3 Update

2008-01-15T15:05:00.000-06:00

First and most importantly, Happy Birthday to my amazing bride! I cannot imagine this adventure without you.

It's hard to believe how quickly our time of apprenticeship has come to a close! I lead for the last time at The Branch this Sunday, and then I will lead next week at South Mac and Charles will preach. It's actually been a really long time since Charles and I have partnered together on a Sunday morning...should be fun!

We have discovered a wonderful online resource for organizing all the tasks and projects involved with the endeavor of church planting. I can tell it's going to save us a lot of time, and perhaps even save us from some ignorant mistakes. Some, mind you, but not all!

Also, Claudia and I have been hosting folks in our home to talk about our Launch Team, and also to simply build relationships with neighbors. We're hoping to have a gathering again this Thursday of friends and neighbors. We want our home to be an embassy for the Kingdom.

We'll keep you posted. Please say a prayer for us as we begin building relationships with people who are not connected to God.

Big Fire Across the Street!

2008-01-07T17:23:00.000-06:00

So...we had an adventure the other day, here in Uptown. A dry cleaners across the street from our apartment caught on fire! Fortunately, no one was hurt, but the entire store burned, and a lot of damage was done to the pizza place next door. At one point, the smoke was so thick that Claudia and I could not see across the street!

Pics of the New Place

2007-12-18T12:18:00.000-06:00

Here are some pictures of our new home in Uptown. We are so very grateful. God has provided much more than we asked or imagined.
This one is the view from our balcony.

Thanksgiving 2007

2007-11-26T06:51:00.000-06:00

Claudia and I had a fabulous time in Abilene for Thanksgiving. It snowed a ton! I could hardly believe it. We had a lot of fun with my family. Here are some fun pictures. We are particularly proud of our snow turkey and eight foot snowman.

November off to a great start!

2007-11-06T05:46:00.000-06:00

Two Sundays back, I had the opportunity to lead worship at the South MacArthur Church, one of our sponsoring congregations. It was a good morning. Afterwards, Claudia and I celebrated the "anniversary" of our engagement by going to Six Flags! In some ways, it's hard to believe it's ONLY been one year--looking at those pictures and thinking about those times seems like a lifetime ago. I'm glad she and I will share many more "lifetimes" together!

Over the weekend, I attended "Preparing for Battle," a spiritual formation retreat at the Branch. It was a powerful time of prayer, confession and healing. I felt like our time together was dangerously close to what God really has in mind for the church: journeying together in life--knowing and being fully known. Our church plant will be adapting a similar experience called Marvelous Light.

On Sunday, the Branch had an all-church gathering in a huge hotel ballroom (neither of their campuses have room for the entire church family). I was grateful to serve that morning by playing some keys. It was a POWERFUL time of praise--I know I did not want it to end. I could have gone another two hours.

And yesterday evening, I was granted the opportunity to spend an evening in worship and prayer with a handful of worship leaders and Dennis Jernigan. God has used this apprenticeship to breathe some life into me again. He has orchestrated numerous times for me to be led in worship.

Since leaving Memphis, there have been many days when I have wanted to start the church plant. I've thought: I'm ready to strategize; I'm ready to meet people; I'm ready to find a place where our church can meet; etc. So premature. So slow to release control. So slow to...well...go slow. I believe God is doing some specials things IN me during this apprenticeship. I still want to work on tasks, but I'm beginning to realize that my best preparation for planting a church this Spring is to enjoy a deeper walk with the Father.

We abide in Him. Fruit will come in season. We abide in Him.

Some week!

2007-10-19T06:21:00.000-05:00

This week has been quite a marker for us! We found an apartment in Uptown that we can actually afford to live in. We secured new health insurance. And this Sunday is my first Sunday to lead worship at The Branch. Having accomplished the formerly mentioned logistical landmarks, we are starting to feel a little better around here!

I have to tell you a little more about the housing. The apartment is right at the heart of Uptown! Just across the street from the most popular social hub--West Village. There happened to be one apartment coming available in December that had not yet received rent-raising refurbishments. We told them they could keep their stainless steel appliances and we would keep the lower price. Seriously--the location and price are absolutely unheard of. We're excited!

This Sunday will be my first time to lead worship behind a piano in several years. The Farmers Branch church family have been most gracious to allow me opportunities to learn and grow this Fall. I'm feeling pretty good about it today.

Location for the Plant!

2007-10-02T06:25:00.001-05:00

Great news! We have chosen the location for the church we intend to plant. The location will be Uptown Dallas. This area is filled with a demographic that is largely absent from our churches: the post-college twenty-something young professionals. It is an area full of high-rise condos, apartments, restaurants, bars, shopping, and not many churches at all. It is full of people who are desperate for community. Most are single. Most are living the "high life."

We want to demonstrate incarnational living. We want to present true community through deep relationship with Christ and His people. We want to serve and be a voice for the overlooked. We want to be God's ambassadors in Uptown. We pray He will work through us to create new ambassadors, and to plant a new embassy of His Kingdom as He continues to reconcile this world back to Himself.

Thanks for your prayers. We are super excited!

Do I look young to you?

2007-09-26T08:12:00.000-05:00

I need your help. Several people over the last couple weeks have told me I look really young. What do you think? Do I have a baby face? How old do you think I'm turning next Thursday? Should I grow a mustache like my Dad?

Lots of good stuff

2007-09-25T06:06:00.000-05:00

Greetings from Dallas! I've been glancing over the calendar this morning, and I was reminded again how fortunate we are to have so many wonderful opportunities. During the month of September, I have helped lead worship at The Branch every Sunday morning, and I helped at Richland Hills one Saturday night as well. Claudia and I went to Lectureship in Abilene and enjoyed our time there. I was also a groomsmen on Saturday for my friend Trevor Rose.

This weekend, I am leading worship for a retreat called City on a Hill. It is a retreat for emerging leaders in some local church plants. It will be a good experience. In October, Claudia and I will travel to the ZOE conference, attend a Theology Lab for church planters, and make a quick trip for ACU Homecoming. I will lead worship at The Branch on October 21 and at South MacArthur on October 28.

Most urgent, however, is our timeline for deciding exactly where we will plant this new church. We hope to have this decision made by Thursday. It's such an important decision. We hope you'll join us in prayer. I'll post again to announce the new community where we will be living and serving in the name of Christ. Thanks for reading.

Ah...transitions

2007-09-06T16:51:00.000-05:00

Well, transitions are stressful. But God continues to provide just what we need and open wonderful doors of opportunity for growth.

The apprenticeship is off to a good start. There are four major components to my time this Fall. The first is worship training. Many of you are aware that I love to play my keyboard. In my ministry experience, however, I have had few to no opportunities to use my instrumental abilities in collaboration with my worship leading gifts. So, one of my primary focuses with Farmers Branch and Richland Hills is to get more experience using both.

The second component is spiritual formation. My new role with the church plant this spring will be a combination of worship ministry and spiritual formation / equipping leaders. Therefore, I am doing a tremendous amount of reading and learning about the venues lending themselves to the most spiritual formation, leadership development, and authentic community.

I am also making time for my own personal development. Most recently, this has included substantial growth in the area of patience as I have been trying to register our vehicles in the state of Texas. :o)

Finally, I'm spending a lot of time with Charles Kiser (co-staff member of the church plant). As you can imagine, we have a number of things to work through before we officially "begin." It's also nice to have ample time for relationship building with a co-worker. I can't say enough good things about Charles.

Claudia has been hired at a Starbucks around the corner from the home where we are staying. She opened the store this morning at 4:45! I'm ashamed to announce I did not send her off as well as a good husband should. I'll have another opportunity tomorrow.

We are very grateful for the opportunities God has provided for us. We want to make the most of them. Thanks to those of you who pray for us often. For those of you who do not, you could say a prayer for us right now if you'd like.

Whose idea was it to move in August?!

2007-08-15T13:50:00.000-05:00

We unpacked our stuff in Dallas on the hottest day of the year! Yikes. Muchos kudos to our friend Jeffrey Rasco for helping us unload our truck in storage. The three of us unpacked the whole thing! Let's just say it took a little longer than it took 14 people to pack our truck last week!

Claudia and I are beginning to settle in a bit. We'll be moving to our "long-term temporary" housing on Monday, so we went by yesterday and did some scouting around the neighborhood. We're so very grateful for the housing God has/is providing through the Kisers, Van Rheenen's, and Packer's.

My heart was thinking a lot about our Highland-Memphis family on Sunday. Our transition still hasn't "hit me." Right now it feels like we're on weird vacation. We're working on a few odds and ends this week and we have a couple meetings. Otherwise, we're trying to take it easy after so many weeks of hard work. I slept 12 hours last night. It was most helpful.

Back from Florida

2007-08-01T10:46:00.000-05:00

Claudia and I had a fabulous time in Florida with her sister and fam. One thing is for sure--we had some good eatin'. I'm not sure what a vacation without good food would be! We mainly took it easy--which was a welcomed break from the stress of changing jobs and transitioning to Texas. Claudia and I still need to learn how to relax. I think practice will help.

You would all be proud of me, I changed my first diaper while in Florida. Although several--after learning it was number one--have told me it doesn't really count. Here are some pictures with JR, Daisha, and Gideon. Gideon is very intelligent, but his best feature is undoubtedly his "fake smile."

How You Can Help

2007-07-17T17:02:00.001-05:00

From August through January, we have been granted the opportunity to work with the Richland Hills church family and the Farmers Branch church family for a time of equipping. Our work will focus in worship and spiritual formation—my main roles as co-leader of the church plant.

As you can imagine, the opportunity to work with these church families is fantastic! But we need some help to make it possible. Claudia and I are raising support for the following two areas: full-time support for our six month apprenticeship, and the remaining 25% of our church planting salary. We are looking for fifty families to pledge fifty dollars a month for one year (or whatever amount people believe God has placed on their hearts). These gifts, combined with commitments from Richland Hills and other church families, will supply all of our funding needs for the next three years! After three years, we hope our new church will be self-sustaining. Would you consider partnering with us in this way?

Claudia and I will be living in the DFW area in less than one month! We can hardly believe our move is coming so quickly. We are super excited about what God has in store for our apprenticeship this Fall, and our efforts with the church plant beyond!

Thanks to all who have offered encouragement and prayers.

Memphis Scavenger Hunt

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Memphis Scavenger Hunt: a picture with both the I-40 bridge and the Pyramid in the frame.

Memphis Scavenger Hunt

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Memphis Scavenger Hunt: the Orpheum Theater

Memphis Scavenger Hunt

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Memphis Scavenger Hunt: a picture with bar-be-que. Kind of.

Memphis Scavenger Hunt

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Memphis Scavenger Hunt: a sporting event at FedEx Forum. Look at those monkey arms!

Memphis Scavenger Hunt

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Memphis Scavenger Hunt: a Memphis Museum

Memphis Scavenger Hunt

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Memphis Scavenger Hunt: a music group performing on Beale Street

Memphis Scavenger Hunt

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Memphis Scavenger Hunt: a picture with Elvis

Memphis Scavenger Hunt

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Memphis Scavenger Hunt: the worst souvenir. This is a purse. Yikes.

Memphis Scavenger Hunt

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Memphis Scavenger Hunt: a crazy hat.

Memphis Scavenger Hunt

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Memphis Scavenger hunt: The Peabody Ducks (yes, they're in there).

Some of the Church Plant Vision, and our Target Group

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The Vision

Imagine a new church that radiates with the glory of God. Imagine a church planted in the United States that reaches the lost of the next generation. Envision a church that gives everything to join God in mission; a church that reaches hundreds of unbelievers with God's good news; a church that fosters authentic community; a church that spiritually forms each of its members in the character of Christ; a church that serves the poor and downtrodden; a church that reproduces and plants other churches; a church that participates in a nationwide church planting movement. Ryan and Claudia Porche have chosen to partner with Charles and Julie Kiser to plant just such a church.

The Target Group

The target group toward which the Kisers and Porches intend to aim their church planting efforts is next generation young adults—Busters (1965-1983) and Millennials (1984-2002)—people much like themselves. This target group is largely unfamiliar with the Christian story. It consists of people in their 20s and 30s; young singles; young professionals; young families; well-educated; ethnically diverse. The next generation is highly spiritual in orientation, anti-institutional, and suspicious of traditional forms of Christianity. The couples desire to plant a church that revisions and lives out the way of God in such a manner that the next generation longs to join.

Announcement from the Porches

2007-07-02T14:14:00.000-05:00

Dear friends,

Yesterday, Claudia and I announced our plans to resign from the Highland Street Church in Memphis. We will be partnering with our friends Charles and Julie Kiser to plant a church somewhere in the greater Dallas area beginning next spring. Beginning in August, we will transition to the DFW area to begin a six month apprenticeship period with the Farmers Branch Church family and the Richland Hills Church family.

We are so very excited! Church planting is something both Claudia and I have thought and prayed about for years. It has been amazing to examine how God has worked in each of our hearts--both as individuals and now as a married couple--as He has nurtured this desire for church planting. While we are saddened to say goodbye to so many wonderful people in Memphis, we are very eager to set out on this adventure and see what God has in store!

Clearly, this is going to be a whirlwind of a transition over the next few months. We still have a lot of work to do. Please check back on this page frequently, we intend to post much more information about our plans and keep all of you informed of our progress.

Share everything in marriage?

2007-05-29T14:32:00.000-05:00

Well, Claudia and I continue to learn what it means to share everything. Recently, we decided to share our respective armies of antibodies and white blood cells. To do so, you understand, we've had to share all ailments, bugs, viruses, and germs. So, we've been taking turns getting sick throughout the month of May. Building antibodies isn't real fun, but we're convinced that it's worth it and we're determined to build each other up as best we can!

Okay, so the above wasn't exactly our plan, but it might as well be! Claudia and I have both been taking turns getting sick all month. We're sick of being sick!

Hey, this Sunday at Highland Street is going to be great! We're going to be spending time praying for different aspects of healing: spiritual, emotional, mental, financial, relational, and physical. Please be prayerful with us for our time on Sunday!

Yes, I still serve Highland

2007-05-13T10:01:00.000-05:00

Well, sandwiched in between two weddings, I have developed a cold. All that together, and I'm missing Sunday morning three weeks in a row! It's so weird to be here this morning and not be able to sing--I almost feel out of place. But I don't really feel like myself either--fever and a stuffed head will do that.

I'm also continuing to understand how wonderful it is to be married. Claudia is taking very good care of me. And with the end of school, this is the time when I'm supposed to be supporting her! Frustrating.

Hopefully I'll be feeling better before we travel for my sister's wedding.

Layne & Apple

2007-05-07T09:38:00.000-05:00

What a great weekend with Layne, Apple, and friends! Layne is my best friend from ACU, and he married Apple last weekend in Midland, TX. The story of their relationship coming together is an amazing story to the glory of God. Let's just say, the story of their relationship lists several miracles and otherwise impossible circumstances. As the minister shared in their ceremony--it is so evident that their relationship is truly "what God has joined together."

It was such an honor to be a part of the festivities. A marriage is such a deeply spiritual experience. In many ways, it is a "death" to one's single self, and a "resurrection" as a couple--a resurrection as one in the Kingdom of God. The groomsmen had a special time of celebrating the ways God has used Layne as a single spiritual being to enrich all of our lives so much. It was very humbling and honoring to be with him in his "dying" moments. For many years now, Layne has brought out the very best in me. I am grateful!

And praise to God as He continually brings resurrection! We can hardly wait to see what He has in store for Layne and Apple together! When I consider the ways Layne has influenced my life, I can hardly imagine how God will touch lives through he and Apple as a couple.

Congratulations to them and to their families!

A Funny Moment

2007-04-30T13:15:00.000-05:00

Last Sunday, while traveling to attend a MercyMe Concert, Claudia and I were reading and discussing an article written to discourage the use of instruments in worship.

One week later, Claudia and I were listening to a sermon promoting the use of instruments in worship as we traveled to experience an Acappella concert!

We had a good laugh at ourselves!

Looking forward to being with my buddy Layne Rouse this weekend, this Saturday is his wedding day!

Wedding Pictures

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A few wedding pictures are available for you to see at the following link:

http://www.jrisinger.photosite.com/porchesamplewedding/

Light shines brightest in the midst of darkness

2007-04-10T10:27:00.000-05:00

Happy Easter season! We had a good morning celebrating the resurrection on Sunday. Jesus Christ is alive, and this changes everything. My buddy Josh led a portion of our assembly Sunday, and he talked about how God's brilliant light of hope and restoration shines all the brighter in life's darkest moments. Though we aim to avoid difficult times, perhaps we should also see them as reminders that Jesus Christ is the only hope for the world.

Claudia and I celebrate our first month-a-versary today! She is the most amazing woman I know. Our love for each other has never been stronger. The gift of such companionship is beyond words. Thanks to those of you who were present for our wedding!

I've been spending a lot of time over the last several weeks preparing a Worship Study for Wednesday nights this Spring. We're going to be talking about Worship as a spiritual discipline, a discipline that grows and changes along with our own aging and maturing. After all, we don't pray the same way we prayed five years ago. I believe the practice of worship is no different. I'm excited about the journey. I encourage you Highland Street readers to be a part...

On Our Wedding Day

2007-03-07T10:08:00.000-06:00

On our wedding day (March 10), I would like to post the poem I read to Claudia when I asked her to marry me. This poem is unique, because I actually wrote it over five years ago as I reflected about the woman I would want to marry. And five years later, it describes her perfectly. Thanks to everyone who has contributed to our stories. Today, we prayerfully begin a new chapter, and submit ourselves once again to His authorship.

The Richest Blessing of My Life
(Ryan Porche; February 3, 2002)

I do not know where she is today
I do not even know her name
But somewhere in this world there lies
Someone that will one day cause my heart to fly

And though our first encounter hasn’t occurred
I already know most everything about her
It is her rock-hard faith that causes my heart to leap
And her compassionate personality that sweeps me off my feet

Her love for her God will be much deeper than mine
And in her mind He will always be the first in line.
She will never drift from His will to obey
And the depths of her love she will never need to say

Because she will express them through her deeds
Her constant never-ending planting of His seeds
And as she showers those around her with His truth
My love for her will begin to take root

An adorable personality is how she is described best
Her words for others will always build and always bless
She will reach out to those whom others will avoid
And reveal to them the one true King who can fill their void

The sound of her laughter will fill me with the greatest joy
And when she speaks to me—all my attention she’ll employ
Her smile will brighten my day and send shivers running wild
I’ll often spend hours lost in her eyes that are deep yet pure as a child

Her voice will cause my entire being to fall still
When she sings my heart with warmth will fill
And when she speaks everyone will hear
And when she whispers, my face will draw near

The beauty of her face will be soft yet stunning
And every time she looks at me, Lord knows my heart will be running
Her flowing hair will be oh such a sight
With length enough to run my hands through, and to brush late at night

Her hands will be gentle and smooth on my face
And her figure will be perfect in every place
When she and I are together we’ll have our own little bubble
Where everyone else disappears, and there’s never any trouble

We’ll have entire conversations with nothing more than our eyes
And every moment I’m away I will long to be back at her side
I suppose I could say that whenever her presence is felt
I will glow as the sun, and my heart will surely melt

I’ll be her biggest fan, all her endeavors I’ll support
To all my friends and co-workers her successes I’ll report
And when we expect the fruits of our love I won’t let her out of sight
And when I first hold our child in my arms, I’ll be higher than a kite

I’ll find great joy in watching her raise our child from year to year
Her tender motherly love will cause my eyes to fill with tear
They’ll be tears of joy as I ask God why He gave this girl to me
And one day those very tears will return when He takes her home from me

She’ll be my richest blessing sent from God above
To me she’ll be more than priceless—she’ll be more precious than a dove
She will be my strength, my courage, she’ll be my partner in life
My life, my love, my all, my wife.

The Joys of Having a Home

2007-02-24T11:08:00.000-06:00

Today marks the third time we have been stood up by the carpet replacement guys. Now, I'm new to the world of "service" companies who say they're coming between 8-12 on Friday or what not. But really--does it really hurt anyone to call when they realize they're not going to make it? I woke up early this morning, and I've been sitting at our home all morning waiting. Any word? Any sign? Negative. But I don't have anything else I could be doing today, right? Ridiculous. Three times I have taken off work or gone out of my way to be here when they could be here. Frustrating. Next time they call, Roy D. might answer.

So, other than the festering pet stain in the hallway, Claudia and I are loving our home. She's been living here for over one month, and my stuff continues to arrive slowly but surely. I'm eager to have all my stuff in one place.

This will hardly be adequate, but Claudia and I want to say thank you for the amazing outpouring of marriage encouragement and wedding gifts. We have been awestruck by God's generosity through all of you. We've had a blast getting our home put together, and we're eager to open it for others to use.

Our wedding day is 14 days away. Ironically, the wedding plans are actually the best thing we have going on. The only stress we feel has to do with each of our respective jobs. But we're also eager for our calendars to calm down. We're missing time with friends.

At this point, I most grateful that our relationship has continued to grow through all of the stress. I would imagine some couples get to the altar and feel like they hardly know each other. I'm very thankful that Claudia and I have continued to grow in love. We need encouragement not to elope. :o)

Sneak Preview

2007-01-19T13:06:00.000-06:00

Above is a sneak preview of the slideshow that will be a part of our Abilene and Memphis Engagement Parties, as well as our wedding ceremony. As this picture is displayed, the lyrics of the song read: "and all this time, preparing him the one to hold him up when he comes undone." More and more each day, I am learning the treasure of such companionship. And isn't she cute?!

Deep thanks to our friends in Abilene for the Engagement Party last Saturday. What a special time we had together! Thank you for your generosity and for all the love and support you have shown me throughout the years. And now that you have met Claudia, I'm sure all of you understand why I have grown to adore her so much! We had a great time in spite of the icy roads.

Engagement is an interesting season of life. One thing I've discovered in the course of building such an intimate companionship is something difficult (but difficult in a healthy way). Whether you try to hide them or not, such a companionship makes it impossible to hide one's weaknesses. While it hurts to face weaknesses so bluntly and publicly, there is healing in calling them for what they are, accepting unconditional love and grace, and working together to make them stronger.

Above is pictured two children of God, who have chosen to walk with each other in becoming all that God has in store for them to become. Such companionship is an indescribable gift.

Off to the Races!

2007-01-03T10:17:00.000-06:00

Happy New Year, everyone! I've been doing a little math to help motivate myself to buckle down for the next few weeks:

4 days until our Capital Campaign begins at Highland
29 days until we move into our new offices
31 days until Claudia and I move our stuff into our new house
46 days until the Highland moves to an interim worship location
and...66 days until Claudia and I celebrate God's work in our lives on our wedding day!

This is a really critical time for the Highland Church in Memphis. I am eager to see how God leads us and provides for us. And it's also an important time for Claudia and I as we continue to prepare ourselves for life together. I'm continually amazed by the heart God has refined within her, and I'm amazed by the richness we're already experiencing through the companionship we have in each other. What an indescribable gift!

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Gideon (my future nephew) and I have bonded quite well.

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The men made breakfast Friday morning. It was most superb, if I do say so myself.

Wedding Day in 3 Months (and counting)

2006-12-11T10:55:00.000-06:00

I am grateful to those of you who have prayed for me. I'm feeling much better these days, and I was very fortunate to experience only a mild case of mono. That could have been much worse...

I spent Thanksgiving this year with Claudia's family in Searcy. We had a wonderful time full of food and laughter. It was especially fun to be with Daisha (Claudia's sister; www.jranddaisha.blogspot.com), JR (Daisha's husband), and Gideon (their child--my future nephew!) because we do not get to see them very often.

On December 3rd, we had our big Christmas show here at Highland Street. I had a lot of fun playing my drumset again (thanks to my wonderful parents who brought it from Abilene). We had over 400 people come to share an outstanding Christmas meal and some fun performances.

The Abilene Reporter News published a blurb about Kami and Brandon along with Claudia and me. http://www.reporter-news.com/abil/fe_weddings/0,1874,ABIL_7938,00.html. Claudia and I are enjoying growing closer to each other and closer to March 10th!

I Don't Remember Registering for This...

2006-11-21T12:54:00.000-06:00

Yesterday, I went to the doctor because I haven't been feeling quite right for over a week now. And I learned that I have mono. Good grief! Not good. Fortunately, it is a very mild version (I'm not on bed rest like others I've known). The only real symptom I have is that I don't feel quite right, and I do get really tired in the evenings.

You can imagine, this is sad news since I'm newly engaged. And it is sad because I don't want to be sick all through the coming holiday season. I would appreciate specific prayers that my body can recover quickly from this virus.

Claudia and I have been registering and looking at rent houses. We're having a lot of fun! We also had a fabulous weekend two weeks ago with all of our parents being in town together. One thing Claudia and I will certainly be giving thanks for this week is the wonderful families we have been blessed with.

And don't worry. The mono has not changed my appetite in the least.

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My bride to be...(photo: jessicarisingerphotography.com)

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jessicarisingerphotography.com

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Claudia and I had no trouble getting along at Halloween.

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This is the spot where I asked Claudia to marry me yesterday morning at the sunrise. We want all of you to share in our joy together...

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Here's an engagement picture we had taken yesterday afternoon. (photo by Jessica Risinger www.jessicarisingerphotography.com)

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This picture was taken earlier this year.

Allow me to Introduce my Fiance...

2006-11-05T10:38:00.000-06:00

For the last year or so, I have been dating a young lady named Claudia. When we first began dating, we asked God to be the Author of our relationship. Though our journey has included many things we never expected, the Lord has been faithfully working to draw us both closer to Him and closer to each other along the way. I am a very different person than I was one year ago. The Lord has used Claudia in my life to transform me more into the image of Christ, and I’m so grateful. I believe I am a better man. And I believe I am a better minister.

Yesterday, a new chapter in our stories began. I asked her to marry me, and she said yes! So now that she’s committed, I’m free to brag about her on my blog! :o) Ha! It has been so difficult not to write about her over the last year, but neither of us wanted our dating relationship to be advertised on the internet—especially since we were just dating. But now she’s wearing the ring I gave her, and I’m ready to show her off!

Claudia is an absolute dream. She has a heart for other people—especially those who are overlooked. She has an adorable and joyous personality, and she is loved and admired by everyone who knows her. We love to minister together, cook, eat (she’s the one for me!), take walks together, travel, attend musical theatre, and be goofy. You should also know that Claudia drives a special car with extra dark window tint. This is because her physical beauty is so stunning that she causes traffic accidents. She is a very talented actress, having starred in a number of musicals while in college. Currently, she is a speech and language therapist for a local elementary school in Memphis.

It’s amazing to realize this is the woman that my family and I have been praying for my entire life. And it’s amazing to realize that her family has been praying for me all along. God has truly equipped us for life and ministry together. She is a gift from Him, and I’m going to spend the rest of my life saying thank you.

Claudia and I want to say thank you to those of you who have prayed for us over the last year. We pray our relationship will always bring honor and glory to our Maker. We now invite you to pray for my sweet parents. Both of their children are getting married within two months (Claudia and I in March, and Kami and Brandon in May)!! Fun times at the Porche house!

Rooted in Righteousness?

2006-10-18T18:35:00.000-05:00

I would like to point out a weakness in our churches today: we do not understand what it means to be broken. I believe we see this played out in a number of ways. Today, I want to speak of something I have seen in myself, witnessed while attending ACU, and continue to encounter as I work with young adults. Many people raised in the church tend to avoid brokenness while applying ridiculously high expectations of themselves, and it results in people who are absolutely torn apart on the inside wrestling with guilt, denial, and loneliness.

For example: Paco is born and raised within the church. Paco is a goody-two-shoes. Paco has a track record of making wise decisions. But in college, Paco falls victim to pornography. In time, his addiction gains absolute control over him. It effects the way he interacts with women and threatens to deeply harm his relationship with a spouse someday. But Paco cannot imagine confessing his struggle. He cannot imagine the people he would disappoint. He cannot imagine what good Christian people would think about him. And the years go by. Years in which he could have experienced healing. Years in which he could have been restored. Years in which he could have become whole in the Lord, attaining the full potential God had in mind. Instead, Paco’s heart is an absolute mess. He is a slave to sin. He is ridden with guilt. He believes many of Satan’s lies. And he feels very alone on his journey. His potential in the Lord is thwarted, and Satan is pleased. He has established such high expectations for himself, that he cannot admit—even to himself—that something needs to give. And his heart is wrenched with the tension for decades.

I just finished reading a book entitled Broken in the Right Place, by Alan Nelson. It’s a great book that speaks to the natural and necessary path of spiritual brokenness. Here’s what I want to say: it frightens me to think how many Christians are not seeking spiritual wholeness. It frightens me to wonder how many of us Christians are not allowing Christ to display His healing power in our lives at all. Opposite of the title to this blog, I want my children to be rooted in brokenness—an understanding that God’s power is displayed most perfectly in broken lives made whole.

Truly, there is great pain in brokenness. But the body of Christ exists in part to share the journey of brokenness, healing, and wholeness. I think it helps us understand the necessity of brokenness when we work backwards: our purpose is to glorify God; God’s power is displayed most perfectly in broken lives made whole; we must communicate how God has healed our wounds; we must allow God to heal our wounds; we must face our own wounds. The first step to spiritual wholeness is spiritual brokenness.

So, what can we do in our churches to release ourselves from these high expectations? What can we do to create environments where brokenness is expected and handled appropriately?

ZOE Conference

2006-10-10T14:59:00.000-05:00

Back from the ZOE conference this week. It’s hard to believe that my first conference was four years ago. In fact, it was the ZOE conference four years ago where I felt my calling to worship ministry very strongly. I was 21 years old. I’m dumbfounded when I think of all that has happened in only four years. It seems like I’ve been doing “this worship thing” for more than four years. One thing is for sure—the Lord has provided more opportunities to grow and learn about worship ministry than I could have ever dreamed. More than anything, I want to be a good steward of the gifts / opportunities God has entrusted to me.

The fact that this conference called me into this ministry four years ago combined with its proximity to my birthday has left the experience as a special time for reflection. My 24th year was quite a journey. God has walked me through some real storms—both in my job and in my personal life. Yet through the pain, I can see how God has worked to make me a deeper person and a more effective worship leader and pastor. He has answered so many huge prayers along the way, and He is resurrecting my spirit.

While we know God is always present, sometimes His presence is hidden. We grow in our relationship with Him when we learn to trust His presence and His work during these times. If you are enduring a time of uncertainty, I want to encourage you with these words that my friend Jon read at the conference: “I feel like I’m surrounded by clouds and I can’t see You, but then I realize You are the clouds.”

The Big 25

2006-10-04T15:20:00.000-05:00

Today, I am 25 years old. I'm currently in the middle of a 24-hour Mexican-food-only stretch. It's been great! :o)

Thanks to everyone for the cards and e-cards. I've had fun receiving them today. A part of my birthday ritual every year is a trip to Nashville for the ZOE worship conference. Two years ago, I spent a portion of my Sabbatical in Nashville, so I always plan a few hours at some "sacred places" to do some reflection on the last year--who I am, how God is shaping me, where I think He's leading me, etc. I'm looking forward to my reflection time, and some great reunions with special friends at the conference. This trip is always one of the biggest highlights of my year. It's a nice birthday gift.

Thanks for reading my blog. I thought of several good blog ideas today, so please check back next week and I'll be sure to deliver. I always try to make my posts "good" so that people will come back. If I don't write, it's usually because I can't think of anything worth your time.

So, do any of you have a birthday ritual?

Kami's Engaged!

2006-09-27T17:21:00.000-05:00

Exciting news! Kami and Brandon got engaged on Friday last week! Yippee! We're all so excited for them, and we love Brandon so much! I'm pretty excited about having a brother! But I'm mostly excited for my sister. She deserves all of the wonderful-ness of Brandon, and she deserves all the wonderful-ness of this exciting and fun time!

It's amazing to recognize that as we have prayed for Kami's mate for twenty-one years, that we now get to witness the answer to those prayers. The Lord answers our prayers in very special ways. And we are grateful!

ACU Lectureship

2006-09-19T13:54:00.000-05:00

Greetings from Abilene! It's been a great week so far--wonderful family, friends and mentors. What a rich experience!

This evening, I'll be leading worship. I look forward to worshiping with those of you from Abilene. And I would like to ask those of you who are not here to pray for our time of worship tonight.

Thanks!

Warning: band nerd

2006-09-15T15:15:00.000-05:00

Fall means one thing to me: marching season. And I've really been getting the itch. I miss drumming so much. Sooo much. I think I'm going to go home today and bust out my practice pad (which the neighbors will appreciate). On several occassions, I have considered contacting local high school band programs to see if they would like an extra tech for the marching season. For those of you who don't know, I spent most of my college career equipping myself to be a high school band director. The change of course is certainly a glory story for another post.

But, performing is still a big part of who I am. Music is still one of my biggest passions. Hopefully opportunities will open one day for me to teach in some part-time capacity. I encourage all of you to go to high school and college football games. And don't get a snack during halftime.

Anyone else miss marching band?

Cool Picture

2006-09-01T12:08:00.000-05:00

This is a picture from our Christian Student Center. The people in this picture are actually the apprentices and student leaders, along with the director, Tim Stafford, in the center. I just thought it was really cool. I wish I could do something like this with the praise team.

Favorite Album Follow-Up

2006-08-25T15:34:00.000-05:00

If I had to choose only one music album to keep for the rest of my life, I would choose Steven Curtis Chapman's Declaration. His music has ministered to me more than any other, and several of the most helpful songs I've ever heard are a part of this album.

Here are the songs: Live Out Loud, This Day, Jesus is Life, No Greater Love, God is God, See the Glory, Bring It On, When Love Takes You In, Magnificent Obsession, Declaration of Dependence, God Follower, Carry You to Jesus, Savior.

Thanks for sharing! Have a good weekend!

Think Before You Answer

2006-08-23T11:01:00.000-05:00

Alright, folks. Here's a good question for you to ponder today. If you had to choose only one CD to keep for the rest of your life, which one would you choose? And why would you choose it? How has it ministered to you on the journey? I'll share mine, but I want to hear yours first.

Weekend Review

2006-08-22T10:28:00.000-05:00

My parents and I had a good time together this weekend. For the most part--we were very lazy--and it was great! We ate some good food, watched some funny home movies, and enjoyed being together again.

Sunday morning was great at Highland. I always enjoy the fall season when most people are back in town, and there's extra energy and excitement. In December, we will be transitioning into an interim worship site (as we construct a new building on the east side of town). I cannot begin to express how excited I am about only leading one worship assembly on Sundays. I am counting down the weeks!

Finally, yesterday, I attended Jazzercise. Yes, Jazzercise is an aerobics class focusing on cardiovascular health and body toning. Oh wow. I was one of two guys in attendance. I went because several of my female friends in Memphis go to Jazzercise often, and my own schedule has often been altered so that they could attend Jazzercise before meeting for other events. It became clear that I needed to experience what all the hype was about before I continued giving them a hard time about it.

It was an enjoyable experience. I caught on pretty quickly and worked up a good sweat. There was a lot of hip action that I wasn't mentally prepared for, and the most sore part of my body is the part that I am currently sitting on. :o) You're welcome.

Congratulations, Jennifer!

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More exciting news this week! Congratulations to Jennifer Walker, who is now engaged! There are some great pictures on her blog (use the link on the right hand side). We're all very happy and excited for you, Jennifer!

My parents arrived safely into Memphis last night, and I'm thrilled to have them with me this weekend. I'll post some pictures next week. Have a good weekend!

School Store

2006-08-16T11:48:00.000-05:00

On Saturday, the Highland Church family served over 3,000 children by providing them with free school supplies and a health fair. It was an amazing day of service! Below is the link to the website that shares more information about this event and how it got started. There are also a number of pictures on the website.

www.highlandschoolstore.com

Here's a shot of my friend, Demetrius, serving away!

The Papa Prayer

2006-08-11T10:35:00.000-05:00

Okay, book suggestion today: The Papa Prayer, by Larry Crabb. If you know me well, you know that I'm not a big reader. Reading is never my first thought when I discover some extra time in my day. It is even more rare that I suggest a book to others.

This book is a paradigm pulverizer. My relationship with God will never be the same. Crabb talks about the priority of relating to God in prayer, not just bringing Him our list of requests. The goal of our relationship with God is just that--our relationship with God. The goal is not the blessings and benefits. Crabb demonstrates how the desires of our hearts will be refined into His desires as we spend more time relating to Him in prayer. And these perspectives speak to the sometimes frustrating claims of Scripture: "You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it" (John 14:14). Crabb also does an excellent job of providing practical explanations and suggestions.

I strongly urge all of you to read this book. Have a great weekend, everyone!

2006-08-10T08:15:00.000-05:00

Alright, folks. A local church in Memphis spent $250,000 to erect this monument on their church campus. You can judge it's relative size by noticing the trees and the size of the truck next to it. The motto of this church is "Liberty through Jesus Christ." I'm curious...what do you guys think about this statement to the world?

Promise Keepers

2006-08-09T11:25:00.000-05:00

Last weekend, I attended the Promise Keepers event in Jackson, Mississippi. I went with a handful of men from Highland. It was a good weekend! There were over 8,000 men in the coliseum! I really enjoyed several of the speakers.

I have to say, it wasn't quite what I expected. The conference was very evangelistic in nature--which is fine, and I witnessed several hundred men give and re-give their lives to Christ. But I didn't expect the entire weekend to be focused on it. I was expecting a little more of a challenging weekend for Christian men to step up and be the men God is calling them to be.

I am glad I went, though--it was a good experience. I believe the conference is in Dallas this weekend if any of you Texas readers are interested. I still really admire and appreciate what the Promise Keepers ministry is doing for men in this country.

Happy Birthday, Kami!

2006-08-08T09:32:00.000-05:00

Well, my wonderful sister is turning 21 today! Wow! And she'll be a senior in college this Fall!

Just in case anyone ever asks you, I am very, very proud of my sister. What a joy it has been to watch her grow and to truly develop a friendship with her that is so special. She makes me laugh like no one else can!

I sure hope and pray that one of these days my sister and I will live relatively close to each other. She is a true gift to all those who know her!

Happy Birthday, Kami!

A New Arrangement

2006-08-04T08:34:00.000-05:00

I learned a new arrangement of a great song last night. In fact, a child wrote it. It happened spontaneously at the end of a recent Sunday school class. As you know with children, the lesson in Sunday school usually consists of one simple truth. The lesson on this occassion was no different: Jesus died for ALL the children of the world.

After the teachers had done their best to drive the message home, they naturally chose to end the class with the song, Jesus Loves the Little Children, so they could include the verse about Jesus dying for all the children. That's when the new arrangement came from the back row:

Jesus diaper-ed all the children
all the children of the world
every color dark or light
they are precious in His sight
Jesus diaper-ed all the children
of the world.

Hmm. So close. :o) I'm leaving today for Promise Keepers in Jackson, Mississippi. Praying for a rich experience. Have a great weekend, everyone!

Layne Rouse is Engaged!

2006-08-03T09:10:00.000-05:00

Congratulations to my best buddy Layne Rouse! He proposed to Apple back on Sunday morning, and she accepted! What an exciting time! We're all very happy for you guys!

I encourage you to say a prayer for Layne and Apple today, that the Lord will continue to be the Author of their relationship.

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And the bedroom.

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Makes me hungry just looking at this picture. I love kitchens. I spend a lot of time in them.

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And the kitchen.

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Here's the living room area.

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Here's the new place! This is what you see from the front door.

Moving

2006-07-28T09:33:00.000-05:00

I'm moving into a new apartment this weekend. Most of the work was done last night, and I am so sore! Whose idea was it to move to the third floor, anyway?! I'll post pictures of the old apartment and the new apartment next week.

This Sunday at Highland Street, we're having a "special-come-to-the-front-Communion-Sunday." Yes, that's the official title. This will be the third time we've done it--should be special.

Have a great weekend, everyone!

Bring the Rain -- by MercyMe

2006-07-26T18:04:00.000-05:00

I can count a million times
People asking me how I
Can praise You with all that I've gone through
The question just amazes me
Can circumstances possibly
Change who I forever am in You

Maybe since my life was changed
Long before these rainy days
It's never really crossed my mind
To turn my back on you oh Lord
My only shelter from the storm
But instead I draw closer through these times
So I pray

Bring me joy, bring me peace
Bring the chance to be free
Bring me anything that brings You glory
And I know there'll be days
When this life brings me pain
But if that's what it takes to praise You
Jesus bring the rain

I am Yours regardless of
The dark clouds that may loom above
Because You are much greater than my pain
You who made a way for me
By suffering Your destiny
So tell me what's a little rain
So I pray

Bring me joy, bring me peace
Bring the chance to be free
Bring me anything that brings You glory
And I know there'll be days
When this life brings me pain
But if that's what it takes to praise You
Jesus bring the rain

Holy, Holy, Holy
is the Lord God Almighty

2006-07-25T11:49:00.000-05:00

Reach Group Friends: Jessica, Laura, Demetrius, Tanya, Christie, and Susan. Oh, and Chloe the dog. This group has met in my apartment weekly for almost a year. It is a true joy to share the journey with these special friends.

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Reach Group Friends: Angela and Adam--who is entirely too proud of his scrambled eggs. Entirely.

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Reach Group Friends: Tanya, Jessica, and Carmen

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Reach Group Friends: Christie Kerschbaum and Angela Rusk.

2006-07-24T14:27:00.000-05:00

Dr. Jerry Taylor and I in my office at Highland Street.

Jerry Taylor Preaches at Highland Street

2006-07-24T13:55:00.000-05:00

Yesterday was a special day. Our friend Dr. Jerry Taylor visited from Abilene and preached in Chris' absence. What a wonderful morning we had together! Dr. Taylor has been a special friend and mentor of mine ever since we both attended a worship conference together in Grand Rapids, MI. Dr. Taylor and I also served on a special team seeking to incorporate more multi-cultural worship at ACU.

I have been richly blest by the example of humility that this man demonstrates. He has also been a rich source of encouragement. Several of the most hope inspiring messages I have ever heard have come through Dr. Taylor's willingness to speak God's word with humility and grace. It's been fun to learn of the doors God has opened for Dr. Taylor to speak around the world. I'm prayerful and excited about the ways our Lord will continue to use him as a preacher of the Gospel.

Words from John Claypool

2006-07-21T10:24:00.000-05:00

Here I am this morning; sad, brokenhearted, still bearing in my spirit the wounds of the darkness. I confess to you honestly that I have no wings with which to fly or even legs on which to run. But listen, by the grace of God, I'm still on my feet. I've not fainted yet. I've not exploded in the anger of presumption, nor have I keeled over into the paralysis of despair. All I'm doing is walking and not fainting--hanging in there--enduring with patience what I cannot change but have to bear.

This may not sound like much to you, but to me it's the most appropriate, most needful of all the gifts: my faith has been the difference in the last two weeks. It's given me the gift of patience--the gift of endurance--the strength to walk and not faint. And I'm here to give thanks to God for that.

And who knows? If I'm willing to accept this gift and just hang in there and not cop out, maybe the day will come that...I will run again and not be weary; and that...[I]...may even sore someday and rise up with wings as eagles. But until then to walk and not faint. That's enough.

O God, that is enough.

Happy Birthday, Dad!

2006-07-20T09:58:00.000-05:00

Today is my Dad's 50th birthday. As most of you know, my Dad calls EVERYONE at Highland on their birthday.

Something tells me he's going to have a busy day...

But it's because we all love and admire him! I'm proud of you, Dad! Happy Birthday!

Roaches are Demon Possessed

2006-07-18T13:38:00.000-05:00

I really believe it. Read my evidence:

1.) Roaches would be the only species to survive a nuclear holocaust. I think this fact alone is sufficient evidence for my theory, but I will supply more.

2.) Once I discovered a large roach on the balcony of my apartment home in Memphis. I proceeded to unleash a fury of RAID brand Ant and Roach Killer spray. Now, most creatures would probably retreat from such a source of death, but no, not this guy. He charged. He plunged directly toward the source of the spray. He bull-rushed me across the balcony. This behavior is not instinctive.

3.) While in Abilene in the month of June, I encountered a small roach in my parents' garage. Thrilled to be wearing shoes at the moment, I crushed it and then kicked it out on to the driveway. I noticed it to be slowly limping in a short circle (counter clockwise because I had crushed it's left side). I was pleased for it to endure such pain, and figured it would crawl in a circle for about twenty minutes before dying. The next morning as I was preparing to leave, the creature was still limping in circles where I had left it! What the junk?! It survived seven hours! I don't understand how a living creature can survive for seven hours with half of its body completely shattered. Again, this is not natural.

4.) And perhaps the worst--a couple nights ago I was reading in bed before turning out the light. I saw something out of the corner of my eye. Yes, a roach darted from the wall and disappeared under my bed. Not good. I don't typically wear shoes to bed, so I had nothing with which to crush it. By the time I retrieved my RAID brand Ant and Roach Killer spray, I couldn't find it. I looked and looked. Couldn't find it. Couldn't sleep either. Not with the strong possibility of unwanted company in bed. So I retreived a flashlight and searched all the harder.

Once I found him, I unloaded at least a full two ounces of toxic spray from point blank range. It retreated to the back of my dresser, but I felt much better knowing that it would probably die back there (you would think I would have remembered story #3). Ten minutes later, I felt something crawl on my arm. I'm not kidding. I flung my arm and jumped out of bed with a yelp. I heard something make contact with the other side of the room. At this point, I knew I was not dealing with an ordinary creature. Do you understand my point? Of all the places he could have gone in my apartment, he came straight to the bed, climbed it and headed for me. This is not instinct. This is demon possession. As I turned on the light, retreived my glasses, flashlight, and RAID brand Ant and Roach Killer spray, I was also calling heaven down!

Rather than spray this time, I simply used the bottom of the can to crush it numerous times. Then I collected the pieces and flushed them down the toilet (and even added an extra flush to make sure nothing floated back up).

Things I've learned:
--Roaches are demon possessed
--RAID Ant and Roach Killer Spray is best utilitzed as a tool of beating rather than as a spray. Do not let the title confuse you. You also get more kills for the price this way.
--Never dismiss a roach until it is dead. Never assume the wound you have inflicted on a roach will be fatal. Never allow a roach to live. If you see one, kill it.

Kami Update and DJ's Wedding

2006-07-17T14:41:00.000-05:00

My sister's surgery went well. She's been recovering for the last several days and seems to be making some good progress. Unfortunately, however, she is still in a lot of pain. Thanks to those of you who are lifting her up.

DJ's wedding went well. I'll post some pictures when I get them (my camera had low batteries when I tried to use it...grrr). Meghan and her family are quite wonderful, and I know it was a very special weekend for she and DJ--we all had a great time.

One aspect of the weekend that was particularly special is that DJ and I had recorded "I Will Be Here" together back in June. It was special because when DJ and I were roommates, we always talked about recording it together for his wedding someday. The recording was a surprise to everyone else involved with the wedding. It's a special memory for all of us.

On Friday, we got to go to the Chicago Cubs / New York Mets baseball game at Wrigley field. What an awesome experience! Hard to believe our DJ Bulls is a married man...but he and Meghan make a fabulous couple and I'm excited for their future together.

Kami's Surgery

2006-07-13T10:23:00.000-05:00

Kami is having knee surgery in Abilene as I type this. Some of you may remember that she had knee surgery over Spring Break earlier this year. It's been difficult for all of us to watch the talented athlete of our family stricken to such limited activity. She needs to be running, swimming, playing tennis and basketball.

Please say a prayer for her today. We're asking for the surgery to be completely successful, and for her recovery to be complete and quick.